Horoscopes often get a bad rap, but the truth is that there’s a good chance you get along better with some signs than you do others. And when it comes to chemistry in the bedroom, you want to make sure that the fun is passionate, sexy and mutual, so why not see what the stars have to say about your love life?

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Aries are very straightforward and assertive with what they want, which can be very sexy. When they want you, they’re not afraid to let you know. They also enjoy getting what they want sooner than later, so they rarely ever play too hard to get. Sex is also an an act of conquest for the Aries; they like being able to have someone when they want them.

Aries are best compatible with a Leo, Libra, Gemini and Scorpio.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Taurus love having all of their senses stimulated, not just the usual sexual ones. They crave pleasure in scents, sounds and sensations and enjoy waiting for the sexy times to come to them, rather than having to chase after it.

Taurus are best compatible with Cancer, Capricorn, Virgo and Scorpio.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

Gemini are very comfortable in their sexual being, so much so that they like being adventurous in spontaneous places. They crave a person with a quick mind because of how much they enjoy talking dirty. Experimenting and trying new things is right up their alley.

Gemini are most compatible with other Gemini, Aquarius, Aries and Sagittarius.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

Cancers like to be romanced into doing the deed, but once they’re coaxed out of their shell, they like to get creative and passionate. They’re incredibly good at reading their partners and knowing what they want, which makes sex with a Cancer quite memorable.

Cancers enjoy the best relationships with Pisces, Leo, Capricorn and Taurus

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

Leos have a very high sex drive that is constantly churning. Which is fine because they typically have no trouble finding partners due to their innate charm and charisma. Leos are highly passionate in the bedroom as they aim to please, but they also need feedback that they’re doing a good job.

Leos have the most fun with Aries, Sagittarius, Scorpio and other Leos.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Often written off as being chaste because of their “virgin” connotations, Virgos are anything but. They’re actually incredibly sexual and love having fun in the bedroom. They enjoy foreplay and the sensual moments leading up to sex, and while they don’t crave creative experiences, they do want someone who can get the job done and done well.

Virgos click the best with Libra, Pisces, Capricorn, and Taurus.

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

Libras are typically only interested in someone who is just as sexy mentally as they are physically. They like a person who can charm their pants off using only words. They love to flirt and love setting the mood with music and sexy outfits.

Libra have the most fun with Aries, Leo, Sagittarius and Gemini.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Scorpios rarely need to tell people how sexual they are, because they likely already know. Scorpios like exploring the boundaries of power and control and channel their sexual forces from the dramatic nature of their life outside the bedroom. They’re highly emotional and highly sexual creatures.

Scorpios enjoy being with Leos, Taurus, Pisces and other Scorpios.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

The Sagittarius will always take care of their partner in the bedroom, but they also need a bit of spontaneity and excitement. Which often leads the single Sagittarius to being very flirty and into multiple people, while the coupled Sagittarius is willing to experiment and see what new kinks they can discover about themselves and their partner.

Sagittarius work the best with Leos, Gemini, Aries and Aquarius.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 20)

Capricorns are also highly sexual creatures in the bedroom and they pride themselves on their capacity for sexual activity. They’re easily aroused and very sensual. And while they might not be into holding hands or kissing in public, they do like it when their partners actively try to win them over.

Capricorns match well with Taurus, Virgo, Cancer and other Capricorns.

Aquarius (January 21 - February 18)

Aquarius need someone who can match their need for an intellectual mate. They might come off as coy and somewhat innocent, but once they’ve been seduced, they open up to a world of sexuality. It just takes the right partner to get them going.

Aquarius loves to mingle most with Sagittarius, Virgo, Gemini and other Aquarius.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

Pisces are often admired by many different types of people, which suits them well because they get along with almost everyone. They’re the perfect partners in bed due to their sensuality, playfulness and openness. They also tend to give more than they receive, as long as their partner inspires them to do so.

Pisces enjoy being with Cancer, Virgo, Libra and Scorpios the most.

h/t Twenty-Two Words


It's Official: Researchers Say We Should Only Be Working 4 Days a Week

Those of us who have had, or currently have, a 9 to 5 job know incredibly well that the 3 o’clock crash is a very real thing. So many people work hard all morning only to find themselves bored, burnt out and killing time for the last two or three hours of the day until they’re off. Yet, people continue to crank out 60-70 hour work weeks.

K. Anders Ericsson, a prominent scientist in the field of work psychology, has done the experiments and says that most people are only capable of doing about 4 to 5 hours of work that is actually productive. Once they reach their productive “limit,” they become less productive and less focused.

"If you’re pushing people well beyond the time they can really concentrate maximally, you’re very likely to get them to acquire some bad habits. What’s worse, those bad habits could end up spilling into the time people are normally productive," Ericsson says.

CEO of Treehouse, Ryan Carson, decided to test this theory about ten years ago in 2006. He put in place a 32-hour work week and hasn’t gone back since. His employees are not only happier, but much more productive. This resonates with Ericsson’s findings that shorter work weeks helped boost productive output, worker retention, and overall personal and professional happiness.

The idea has also been tested in a school environment, as 4th and 5th grade students in Colorado were part of an experiment that saw their school week drop from five days to four. The results? Reading and math scores for the 4-day school week students went up by 6 percent and 12 percent when compared to students in the traditional 5-day school week.

"I think the idea that children will be fully concentrating during all their classes is unreasonable," Ericsson explains.

Much of the evidence suggests that simply finding new ways to redistribute the workload over the week can have major benefits for both schools and professional work environments. Many places have already begun doing so by offering their employees four 10-hour days instead of five 8-hour days. This not only gives people an extra day off, but also allows them a greater chance of avoiding rush hour traffic.

What do you think? Would you prefer a 4-day work week?

h/t BrightSide

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Photos: Stray Miniature Schnauzer is Taken in by Monastery, Becomes a Monk

It’s not everyday you see a miniature schnauzer dressed up like a monk. The adorable pup you see here is Friar Bigotón (Friar Moustache), and he’s the newest member of St. Francis Monastery located in Cochabamba, Bolivia.

Friar Moustache was once a stray dog wandering the streets until he was taken in by the kind monks at the monastery.

“His life is all about playing and running,” says fellow friar Jorge Fernandez. “Here, all of the brothers love him very much. He is a creature of God.”

Friar Moustache was even given a special ‘habit’ to wear around the monastery, denoting his status as a friar like the other monks. He can be seen regularly attending to his chores around the monastery, which includes giving sermons to the fish.

“If only all the churches of our country [would] adopt a dog and care for him like Friar Bigotón,” writes local animal rescue, Proyecto Narices Frías (Cold Nose Project). “We are sure that the parishioners would follow his example.”

How cute is this little monk dog?

Please share with friends and family who would love to see Friar Moustache’s new home at the monastery!

h/t BoredPanda

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5 Photos Showing Strange Things Happen When Bookstore Employees Are Bored

People tend to get creative when they’re bored and need to entertain themselves. Like the good folks at the Librairie Mollat in France, who actually started an Instagram page dedicated to their new favorite pastime: finding books that match up perfectly with their patrons’ faces and bodies.

We can see just how good they’ve gotten at pairing the right faces with the right books--the result being something that is different, yet still artful in its own capacity. Not to mention, it’s kind of hilarious and unsettling at the same time.

Perhaps even cooler is the fact that this particular bookstore was the first independent bookstore to open in Bordeaux, France, in 1896. Its employees are clearly set on only furthering its reputation of independence.

Check out the pictures here, let us know which ones are your favorite, and then head over to their Instagram account to see more!








h/t Bored Panda

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3 Things You Need to Know About High-Functioning Depression

Depression is a very complex mental condition that affects everyone differently. Those of us who have suffered from depression before know just how insufferable it truly is.

For some, the condition is just like many people believe it to be: feeling apathetic towards everything, feeling fatigued and unmotivated, crying, avoiding people and friends, etc. For many others, depression hides behind a happy face and a well-to-do attitude--masks that cover up any trace of unhappiness.

These people are suffering from high-functioning depression. And it’s important to know the difference.

High-functioning versus low-functioning depression

Unlike people with low-functioning depression who struggle to get out of bed or even take a shower, high-functioning depression is when a person is seemingly quite well on the outside, but on the inside they are consumed by sadness.

Professor of psychiatry Carol Landau says that she typically sees high-functioning depression in people who have relatively good (or even enviable) lives who have achieved a lot.

"People often say being high-functioning is better than being low-functioning, but that’s not really true because the most important thing is for a depressed person to get help — which a high-functioning person is limiting herself from," Landau says.

It’s often kept hidden because of the stigma surrounding it

So many people in the world today live with high-functioning depression. Some have been doing it for almost all of their lives without anyone ever noticing. One of the main reasons this is has to do with the negative stigma surrounding depression as a mental health condition.

Have you ever told someone you’re depressed and they ask why you can’t just be happy? Or why can’t you just stop being depressed? Depression is a largely misunderstood condition and people automatically become uneasy when you tell them about how lifeless you feel inside and how nothing changes it.

Landau says she sees it a lot in women because of their need “to be caregivers,” something that contradicts them “admitting [that they] need help.”

Learning how to recognize depression

”You might have a friend who is cranky all the time, or who people think of as a “bitch,“ but inwardly that person is really struggling. Other subtle signs to look for: ironic or morose jokes or often seeming out of it. For me, it was irritability,” explains Landau, describing how depression can manifest in a person differently than we tend to believe.

If you think someone you know or love is battling with depression, the best ways to reach out are by asking simple questions, like “How are you doing right now?” followed up with neutral phrases like “you seem kind of out of it lately” or “you don’t seem like yourself.” People with depression often just want you to listen to them.

If you feel that it’s a good time to offer suggestions or advice, come prepared with recommendations for a therapist or something that might help them get out of their head-space. But, be prepared for them not wanting your help or to leave their depressive comfort. Many people will take it the wrong way when you suggest them seeking out help.

“There are so many different types of therapists, medications, apps, and other tools. That’s why it’s tragic that so many people don’t seek help.”

Mental health is something many of us take for granted until our own begins to decline or suffer. It’s a terrible feeling and one that is hard to shake. If you’re depressed, do not be afraid to reach out for help. If you think someone might be depressed, listen to what they have to say and see if you can help.

Above all else, we must take care of each other.

h/t Brightside

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